This Means War

Now most of you have probably not seen this movie, This Means War, however, for those of you who have, you will understand what a treat it is. The writing is very witty and in fact offers a female perspective on dating that is not often explored. How a woman can date multiple men at once, just like men often date multiple women at once. The twist to the plot is that both men who are competing for "the prize" are best friends. With McG at the helm (director/producer Charlie's Angels, Supernatural, The O.C.) you can expect nothing less from his typical action packed, sexual tension overload, man about town type film.

 *SPOILER ALERT*

 So Lauren (Reese Witherspoon) falls for FDR (Chris Pine) or who I think of as the "ass hat" out of the two. Tuck (Tom Hardy) was looking for a honest relationship and FDR was really just in it at the beginning for the competition. People can argue, 'He fell in love with her and that's when he realized that he wanted to be a better person.' Let's be honest shall we, he wanted what most men want, what they can't have. It's all really about the game. She rejected me and I think I am perfect so I need to have her because all women must think I am perfect. Tuck did what I think all men should do. He asked her out, took her on some creative dates and put in the time. It wasn't super flashy or show boat-ish, it was sincere and thoughtful. FDR was all about flash and trying to have the upper hand.  So at the end of it all, when Lauren picks FDR, I can't help but ask myself why?  Why would a woman so career oriented and honest with herself, pick the guy who knows least about himself and at the end of the day is probably the most selfish?  It seems so peculiar to me and then Chelsea Handler's character Trish has to go and say something insightful like this...

Now this post may seem like it is taking a negative turn but mostly I want women to realize just exactly what they are dealing with. These types of movies, while completely entertaining, make you realize that we as women need to take back the power.  Why is it ok for men to date multiple women at a time and get kudos for it but a woman does it and she is a whore? Why is it ok for women to think that they need to be doing the chasing and the men to sit back and let her do all the work? Why can't there be a little more class and a little less trash?

The main question is this, when did it become ok for women to feel like it was necessary to become this kind of creature who beats herself up every time a man doesn't call?  Is this all we are living for?  Validation that we as women can't survive on our own with out being in a relationship?  I digress however.  This could easily turn into a blog about a battle between the sexes and that simply isn't a fair fight.

In conculsion if you are looking for a movie that is a feel good romantic comedy, This Means War is a must.  Hijinks and shannanigans ensue, Chelsea Handler brings a little raunch to the table while Reese Witherspoon adds that wholesome girl next door appeal that we have come to love about her.  Chris Pine and Tom Hardy are the perfect boyfriend combined together so it's no wonder that Reese Witherspoon's character has a difficult time deciding who is right for her.  They are the amazing blend of machismo and sensitivity at it's finest.